

The Baby with Three Families, Two Countries, and One Promise: An International Adoption Story by Julie Gianelloni Connor is both heartwarming and informative about the adoption process. It is the perfect book to share with children who have been adopted or who are part of families that plan to adopt a child one day. The colorful illustrations by Saman Chinthaka Weerasinghe are the perfect cross between cartoon and realistic, which will appeal to readers of all ages.
I read this book with my nine-year-old son who is not adopted, but he was interested to read the book because one of his cousins was adopted from China as a toddler. As we read, he wondered aloud how a baby could have three families, to which I replied, “Well, let’s read on and see.” Throughout the reading of the story, he peppered me with questions about whether his cousin’s experiences matched those of Baby Alejandro’s.
Perhaps because he is an older child, he wanted me to flesh out characters a bit more. He wondered how old the birthmother, Luz, was and who Alejandro’s birthfather was. I explained that the author made a choice not to share those details and maybe she didn’t know them herself. (I later told him that like many similar experiences that people have throughout their lives, it is the details that differ slightly. But at the very core, important things like love and family remain the same.)
Before reading the back of the book, I was a little confused by the choice to not identify the country where Luz was from. While I now understand the author’s intent to allow readers to insert the flag of their own child’s country, I don’t think it works well on one particular illustration since it clearly shows the flightpath between somewhere in the U.S. to Central America. (Imagine putting a Chinese flag on Central America. It’s a little odd!) Or perhaps a family from the U.K. is reading this book to their child who comes from Africa.
My son and I enjoyed the story and when asked what he thought of the illustrations, he said that they were nicely drawn and that he liked the colors that the artist used. I liked the flow of the story and thought that the book was laid out well. I think this is a great book to gift to adoptive families and would make a nice addition to the bookshelf in childcare and education settings as well.

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MissusGonzo Reviewer: Thank you for your review, and thank you for reading this book to your son. I very much appreciate hearing the reactions of a nine-year-old! While I did adopt a child, the details of this story are fictional. Your answer to your son about the core, important things is spot on. It’s interesting that you, knowing geography, were concerned with the direction the illustrated plane is heading, whereas in working with the illustrator I was more concerned about the size of the plane vis-a-vis the map! Parents might know the plane is heading the wrong way for their child, but will the child? All interesting questions to think about, and perhaps to revise in a future edition. Your review is much appreciated.
What a detailed and wonderful review, Missus Gonzo! Congrats to Julie on this amazing book!
Jan: How kind of you, and you are absolutely right about the review from Missus Gonzo. Thanks to both of you for commenting on my book.